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pager

It is so hard to believe at one time this little gadget was on the cutting edge of technology.  Before cell phones, pagers received numbers notifying the holder to call the sender. My husband had one in 2001, but I didn’t see the need to have one myself. B., however, had one that she hid under her arm on her bra strap.  Her secret boyfriend had given it to her so they could communicate through code. Certain numbers were assigned to names and places.  In this way, if the pager were to be confiscated, her mothers and father would not know who she was conversing with.  By giving her the pager, this young man had taken a chance of being kicked out of the community, and declared an apostate.  

Escaping Polygamy: Not Without My Daughter | Season 2 Episode 6 Sneak Peek | A&E – YouTube

Escaping Polygamy: Not Without My Daughter | Season 2 Episode 6 Sneak Peek | A&E

B. called me last week after learning this had aired. The next day I sat on her couch and our hearts broke as we watched Lizzy agonize over the loss of her daughter. Three years ago, her daughter was chosen to be a part of the United Order, Lizzy was deemed, “unworthy”, and her daughter was taken to a new home.  

B. was especially shaken because she is related to Lizzy.  As we listened to her soft voice and completely submissive words, we were saddened to tears.  Even if she left the Crick tomorrow, she would spend the rest of her life getting the “Crick” out of her.

This is why we write: To spread knowledge of the universal right to have a choice and a voice.